Sunday, February 13, 2011

VALENTINE'S DAY SPECIAL

 Hi friends

'Happy valentine's day'

There will be many incidents,stories and memories occurs in every one's life but as the time passes we forget them.
But if u go back and remember the incident and write it you feels 'so sweet'...i am making such an attempt...
Well,friends here is one more small story i would like to share with u and make Feb 14 special.

"When I was a little boy, once we(family) went out for picnic to near by place and when we returned back it was nine in the evening and also we were very tired. My mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember that night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long time(since we ate lot of snacks in the picnic).

On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of sweets, khara, and extremely burned upma(uppittu) in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his upma , smile at my mom, and ask me how i felt at picnic today. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember Watching him eating that burned upma with smile.!

When I got Up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad For burning the Upma. And I'll never forget what he said: 'Dear, I love burned upma.'(yene ninge gottalwa hottida uppit nan like madtini anta)
Later that night, I went to sleep with my Daddy and at that time I asked him if He really liked his upma burned. He took me in his arms and said, 'Dear, u know na we were out for picnic whole day, we are tired and she's also really tired. And besides-a little burnt upma never hurt anyone!' You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. I'm not the best housekeeper or cook.
What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each other's faults - and choosing to celebrate each other's differences - is the one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting marriage relationship.
We could extend this to any relationship in fact - as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or parent - child or friendship!! " 

A best lesson which i learnt from him.

Dedicated all  
Love all and hurt none

Thursday, February 10, 2011

TRUE LOVE

Hi friends....

How r u? I think you enjoyed reading my previous stories...Thank u ....now i would like to share with  u one story  which i read it long before.I remember this story whenever I listen word 'LOVE'...friends its a story u never forget once u read this....ok here starts a story....

TRUE LOVE
 
Nurse: “It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 am, when an elderly gentleman, in his 80’s, presented to have sutures (stitches) removed from his thumb.

He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
 
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him.
 
I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On examination it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation. Asked him if he had a doctor’s appointment this morning somewhere else, as he was in such a hurry.
 
The old gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
 
I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer Disease.
 
As we talked, and I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in last five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him. “And you are still going every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?”
 
He smiled as he  patted my hand and said. “She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.”
 
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, “That is the kind of love I want in my life.”

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
 
Check out the people you love .. is it as strong as this old gentleman... ?

Friday, February 4, 2011

VANDU HUDUGIYA KATHE(girl story)

Hi guys....

You all r thinking Wat may be the girl's story....OK OK i will start just read it....
It was small incident which occurred in my life during my college days(PUC college ie when i was in 12th ).
          Now its Feb month,the incident which i am telling u  also occurred during Feb month of 2005 it was exam time there was no college,we had study holidays and we use to study from morning till late night and never went out during these days.
           Avattu Friday sanje 4 ಗಂಟೆ ,ಬೆಳಿಗ್ಗಿಂದ ಓದಿ ಓದಿ ಬೇಜಾರ ಆಗಿತ್ತು ,ಹಾಗೆ ಮೈ ಮುರುಯುತ್ತ ರೂಂ ಹೊರಗಡೆ ಬಂದೆ ಇನ್ನು ತುಂಬಾ ಬಿಸಿಲು ಇತ್ತು, ನಮ್ಮ ರೂಂ ಸೆಕೆಂಡ್ ಫ್ಲೂರ್ ನಲ್ ಇತ್ತು ,ನಮ್ಮ ರೂಂ ಮುಂದೇನೆ ರೋಡ್ ಬಹಳಸ್ಟ್ ಗಾಡಿಗಳು ಹೋಗ್ತಾ ಇದ್ದವು.
ಜನರು ರೋಡ್ನಲ್ಲಿ tirugaddattidru   ಇನ್ನೊಂದ ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಜನ ತಮ್ಮ ತಮ್ಮ ಕೆಲಸದಲ್ಲಿ  ಮಗ್ನರಾಗಿದ್ರು.ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಹೊತ್ತು ಅಲ್ಲೇ ನಿಂತು ಎಲ್ಲ ನೋಡ್ತಾ ಇದ್ದೆ.ಇನ್ನೇನು refresh aytu anta tirugi room valage hog bek anta turn aagta edde suddenly my eyes were caught by beautiful girl who was going on road,again i turned back and started watching her with my mouth open..
abba she was very very  beautiful girl.... she was wearing pink colored chudi  color ge takka pink bangles  and pink colored sandals..evrything was matching matching...i could observe light color lipstick on lip also...suddenly i remembered a song from premaloka 'limbe hanninanta hudgi bantu nodu'....and my imagination reached its highest level ie..i was having nice time with her in goa beach....suddenly i heard voice from my room mate ಸಾಕು ಬರಲೋ valagade  ಏನ್ ಮಾಡ್ತಿದಿಯ ....suddenly i saw down she crossed the road and went ahead 200 meters...then i ran inside room weared my shirt and chappals 'le swalpa hottu horagade hogi bartini' anta heli allinda kelagade bande..
                                    Street was bit busy and she  was going around 300mts ahead of me and  i started following her,i was just jumping and seeing so that she should not go out of my sight....yappa at that moment wat i was doing really i was not doing ...in next 2 days i was having final board exams n i am following a girl on the streets of dharawad  oh my god....by following i crossed two streets, in the next street there not much crowd so i could go near by her and now the distance was around 10meters behind her...suddenly she got call she opened her mobile,started talking in that and as i followed her i thought wat shall i talk suddenly if she turns back...
                         Nanna manass ಹೇಳ್ತಾ ಇತ್ತು 'ಲೇ ಮೊದಲ avala hatra hogi nillu yella bayalli barutte'anta.....by thinking that we crossed some more streets...to tell u really i was not in my control ...my mind was controlled by somebody else....in the next street some cool air was blowing and her loose hair were blowing back....again i went somewhere.....as every story has to end my story ended in the next street....iwas almost near to her and i  was saying 'excuse me.....excuse me......i called her two times but my voice did not reach her.....as i decided to move still faster and talk something directly to her.... i moved faster ...her home was near by...suddenly two small children i think of 2 years old came running....'mummy' 'mummy' .......oh my god i said and turned back...smiling n smiling i rubbed my hair.....i asked pesron ತೆರೆ 'ಸ್ವಾಮಿ ಯಾವ ಏರಿಯ idu
 he said 'sadhankere'.....ayyo i was around 5-6 km away from my room....i thought of taking bus from there but saw no money in the pocket....innenu...i returned back to room by walk.....nice incident na...









Wednesday, February 2, 2011

something about pune

Dear all.......

         My previous posting was my first day experience in sainik school.... i told it will be continued ....i am not telling u  that story now....that will be secret....when complete it i will let u read....
         So what i am going to tell is all about pune,so you all heard about pune but do you know where exactly it is situated.....dont worry i will take u there,It is around 1000km from Bangalore,as usual there are three modes to go to pune from bangalore   1.It is by plane, if u sufficient amount of money in your pocket u can prefer this route.
2.It is by train ,u can take any train which goes to Bombay and its cheaper also but the problem is if u take Bombay train it will be reaching pune in mid night so till morning u have to spend time in station itself.Also there are some trains which reach in right time but they r not daily trains.
3.And final is by bus it goes by NH4 high way if u take any travels it costs around Rs1000 and if u go by govt bus it is lesser.

       So these are the modes u can choose any one  to come to pune....This wonderful city is situated on the banks of river mula in western ghats,recently this city was also considered as metro city ,it is in Maharashtra state and language is Marathi.
        Well,that is the some rough introduction to pune,now i will introduce areas of pune,some of the famous area includes swarget,kothrud,deccan,malwadi,koregaon park,fc road,pune camp,chinchwad,pimpri,nigadi,erawad,katraj,aundh,baner,hinjewadi,hadapsar,magarpatta,bhosari,vishrantwadi etc.......when u go by bus u will reach area called swarget like mejestic in bangalore....
        Hay guys belonging to karnataka how this guy know about pune u r thinking correct??????? frnds i spent my valuabe one year in this city.
          Before i start how was my experience in pune i would like to tell how this pune near to some of the famous places.It is around 170km from Bombay ,200 km from famous shiradi,70km from Lonavala and khandala and 150km from mahabaleshwar which is famous tourist spot and 200 km from kollapur....
           Almost 30 - 40 percent indian defence establishements are in pune that includes National defence academy,AFMC etc....
Flash back.....flash back.....
                             It was in september 2009, i finished my Engineering there was recession and no job in hand,i decided to go to pune to hunt job so departed from Dharawad,got into bus with my two three bags and caught one window seat and sat down.After five minutes one more person came sat beside me and asked 'yenri yelige hogtidira' nan 'pune ande...oh 'first time?' 'yes' i said 'oh all the best' he said.Then i went to sleep.
                     'yelappa pune last stop bantu' as i heard voice from conductor i got up and saw in the window finally i was in the unknown place called pune.just i got down from bus with heavy luggage.it was around 5.30 in the morning i could here chili pili   sounds of birds.As soon as i got down some auto drivers approached me and said 'sab kaha jane ka ? bag de do' i said 'nahi bayya nahi bayya' and came to one conductor and asked bhayya at wat time we have bus to station,he said its at 6 i waited till that i got bus 6 and reached station.
                  I called my cousin and said me landed up in pune how to come your flat he just said the route and i followed it and reached his flat which was in vishrantwadi.That full day i took rest.
                  From next day morning my real hunt for job started,in the beginning it was very difficult to roam around coz of new place and language,not even single ward i was not knowing in marathi and hindi also was not perfect,god knows how i spent some beginning days in pune...u all know time changes everything i first learned how to talk hindi properly and slowly marathi and got to know places in pune,which are industrial areas...and to tell u not even single industrial area i left... i roamed all the areas and gave interviews in the beginning they is to reject me why u know....just guess marks..no..cos i have good academic record then why coz i was not knowing marathi.....they love their language very much so its very difficult to adjust in pune for an outsider.....
                          Searched,searched and searched ...finally one company offerred me a job and joined also..
and my new corporate life was begun...
















































Tuesday, February 1, 2011

my life story

Hi every one .....

I am Vijay Javali friends call me as 'javli','javalya','jouls'......they likes calling by that name and me too likes that..
So how can i start with.....
I am basically from village in Dharwad district,karnataka...born there ,father was teacher so they wanted me to go to ukg n lkg but i never went...finally when i was 6 years old he took me to school got admitted into primary school but never sat in the school my mom was coming  with me till the school every day but after the prayers i was slowly escaping  from the school.....
So that was very bad start one day my mom caught me while i was escaping that day i saw hell(bitten up by my mother)....i think that was last day i never bunked single class after that...
As the time passed i started loving the school,subjects and friends....at that time i got frnds chandru,ganga n sangeeta.....but i used to talk very less during school days the same character continued....i was bright student so after my 5th class i got admission into sainik school bijapur....
New life @ sainik school
at the starting i found very difficult to adjust to that new environment.....routine was getting up @ 5 in the morning going to  PT in that chilly morning with white n white short n shirt after coming from there getting ready for the school with kakhi dress i never listened to single class coz by the time when we is to get tired specially me..got scoldings from all teachers after the class @1.30 we there is to rest till 4 in the evening but our seniors never left us free....le bring me that ...do this..do that...so our rest time was passing like this...@4 again getting ready for sports ....play or dont play u hav to be in field till 5.30pm....our routine is not over still...our refreshing time ie bathing time was in the evening coz never got time in the morning....exactly @6.30 it was study time till 8 we have to go to study hall n attendence was taken by a tutor....at 8 we use to have dinner that to we should finish it in a limited time....i never did that ...so u can see my personality why i am lean
after dinner ...u r thinking its sleeping time ...no boss not at all....we have to sit for study again @10.30 our house master will take attendence again....so daily we were sleeping after 11 in the night
So that was routine got fed up in the some days only thought of running out of there but it never happened  as the time passed got adjusted again.... 
All the things i would like to share in detail here......on the first day i came along with my father to bijapur n landed up in the bus stand..wa wat clean city...where ever u see opened manholes n pigs looks like gundas roaming around street...we took auto n started our journey towards sainik school...my father was very happy coz iwas joining school which was his dream school...infact me too was very happy....we asked the driver 'yenappa ennu yest dur ede school'....'bantu swami nodi alli ede main gate'...nav hage nodididvi....wa wa such huge campus....i just closed my eyes thanked the god for giving me opportunity to study inthis school....as the auto crossed the main gate we saw many big grounds some teachers residents principal's bunglow...finally came infront of main building ..me n father got astonished by seeing that building...'swami 30 rupaya aytu kodi late aagutte hogabeku'anta anda autpo driver.....oh take it anta my father gave him 30 rupees...before we enter building we saw a aeroplane which was real one kept infront of the building...we went near by n obseved carefully....i started climbing that one....'hay baro yaradru nodidre baytare'anta papa karidru..after
We entered the building first went admin dept my father showed him all the details about selection  form and completed all the formalities...after that one of admin person said look that notice board n which house u belong n meet that house superidendent... there were total six houses in school and names were chalukya,hoysala,adilshahi,vijaynagar,wodeyar and rashtrakuta.....houses means these are residential name where we have to live...
I n father came out searched name in the notice board vijaykumar javali -3353- hoysala house...it was too rush ...many parents came with their sons for the admission...some were departing ,some were arriving..parents who were leaving were dropping tears from their eyes and guys were hugging their parents with tears in the eyes....i did not feel anything at that time..some were talking around 'abba namma maganige hoysala house sigalilla valledaytu,alli seniors bahala danger ante'....that time i saw change in my father's expression...so i touched him n said 'papa hogona'.....'hu nadipa yavkade hogodu' anta andru we had three bags which contained all six pair dresses n three pair shoes(which were complsury to bring before joining)..as we walked towards my great house..we saw classes they were well build n sophasticated ....again i observed smile on father's face....campus was very big it was around 400 acres...campus was well planned ...after crossing building from far we saw six houses....3 on one side n other three on other side middle there was mess..which was very huge.....it was aruond 4 in the evening all boys were neat dressed earing different color t shirts like blue,green,red,yellow etc n were giong in squad....we stood there n saw...also name written on hoysal a house was visible....we took short cut from there n reached the house...my father called one boy near n asked him 'yenappa superidendent room yellide'....adakke avnu 'uncle valagade first right hogi 'anta anda...
hage nan hatra bandu 'hay ee routalli(short cut) yak bande seniors nodidre hoditare main road nal barbeku'anta heli odi hoda....suddenly i remembered words said by parents in school building...my body started severing....then father took me to supt room showed him all the details...he varified all n checked the items which we brought ie dresse n shoes....he showed us the full house...there were 4 barracks each barrack was accommodating 30 guys...1st barrack was for 6th class n half 7th,2nd for half 7th n full 8th,3rd for 9th n 10th 4th was for 11 n 12th.....and one side there was big study hall which was common for all...he showed us the 1st barrack n bed ...as we go inside there is room where there r only cupboards...which were meant for one each and after that there were toilet and bathrooms which were comman for all.....i was very happy when i saw all this...then i saw time in the watch it was 5.30 ...also heard noise from outside..which was of guys who were returning from the games...as they entered they took towels n inner wears and running towards bathroom....my father said 'sari nappa naditini nanu late agutte'andru.....that time i could not control water rushed out of my eyes got up n hugged my father....that time 'hay albeda sari hogutte vand yerad dina aste'..anta andu....they left me......continued...